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【人生自恋曲 】 飞逝的光阴,飞逝的人生
8月8日,来到美国16年。正好,人生有三个完全不同的16年。

16岁时,离开家乡小镇到北京上大学。大学和工作16年之后,离开家国到美国。

在美国这16年过得太快了。前几天和北京的一个老同学电话聊天,我说这16年过得太快。而在北京上大学研究生院的几年,回想起来,却是我感觉最漫长的几年。

这两三个礼拜,作了几个健康检查,身体似乎还不错。争取再快乐地过人生最后一个16年。在那之后,如果还能活的话,就算是Bonus。其实我好多年前,就将自己的每一天,都看成Bonus的。

Bonus总有拿完的一天。生命总有尽头,无人例外。只有活着的分分秒妙是永恒的。
   
  Sunlake     08/10/2010 13:42
Jiang E, You're exactly right! Every day is a bonus! In a couple of years, I would have been in the US for half of my life. I already felt myself awkard when I was visiting friends and families in China and it is getting worse . Yun MM, how about you?


BBB wrote: (08/10/10 01:07)
8月8日,来到美国16年。正好,人生有三个完全不同的16年。

16岁时,离开家乡小镇到北京上大学。大学和工作16年之后,离开家国到美国。

在美国这16年过得太快了。前几天和北京的一个老同学电话聊天,我说这16年过得太快。而在北京上大学研究生院的几年,回想起来,却是我感觉最漫长的几年。

这两三个礼拜,作了几个健康检查,身体似乎还不错。争取再快乐地过人生最后一个16年。在那之后,如果还能活的话,就算是Bonus。其实我好多年前,就将自己的每一天,都看成Bonus的。

Bonus总有拿完的一天。生命总有尽头,无人例外。只有活着的分分秒妙是永恒的。
   
  Blues     08/10/2010 17:07
“在美国这16年过得太快了。前几天和北京的一个老同学电话聊天,我说这16年过得太快。而在北京上大学研究生院的几年,回想起来,却是我感觉最漫长的几年。”


深有同感。觉得二十一世纪到来才是昨天的事情, 回首10年已经过去, 2010年也过了一半了。
光阴似箭,日月如梭,没有比今天这样更能让人深切感受到。。。 想想真的不寒而栗。 :-( :))



BBB wrote: (08/10/10 01:07)
8月8日,来到美国16年。正好,人生有三个完全不同的16年。

16岁时,离开家乡小镇到北京上大学。大学和工作16年之后,离开家国到美国。

在美国这16年过得太快了。前几天和北京的一个老同学电话聊天,我说这16年过得太快。而在北京上大学研究生院的几年,回想起来,却是我感觉最漫长的几年。

这两三个礼拜,作了几个健康检查,身体似乎还不错。争取再快乐地过人生最后一个16年。在那之后,如果还能活的话,就算是Bonus。其实我好多年前,就将自己的每一天,都看成Bonus的。

Bonus总有拿完的一天。生命总有尽头,无人例外。只有活着的分分秒妙是永恒的。
   
  云天     08/10/2010 22:03
E教/sunlake mm/bluess mm 好!

拜读E教新作.

"飞逝的光阴,飞逝的人生". 看到这题目, 谁能不感叹? :-)

时光飞逝, 飞逝! 人生能有多少十年, 十六年...
10x8, 16x5. 我觉得大家起码要活到80. 所以E 教至少还有两个16年. 原来属虎啊, 祝本命年如意. :-)



"Bonus总有拿完的一天。生命总有尽头,无人例外。只有活着的分分秒妙是永恒的。"
的确. 去年曾几何时, 我还觉得自己与生老病死无关呢. :-)


叶赛宁说,“不惋惜,不呼唤,我也不啼哭;金黄色的落叶堆满我心间,我已经再不是青春少年……”
唉, "惋惜"还是有一些的. :-)
   
  BBB     08/12/2010 22:01
这几天也很忙,8月8日那天星期天,也在补前几天缺席的时间。只好随便写了几行字。我对日子记得多,也比较敏感。还喜欢回忆过去。这也不是近年变老之后才这样的。

就觉得时间过得快,过完每一天,就离死亡更近一天。可谁也拉不住飞逝的人生岁月。

谢大家阅读和分享。
   
  Annie     09/23/2010 21:44
"其实我好多年前,就将自己的每一天,都看成Bonus的。"

ditto, ditto. I treated every day after my 30th birthday as bonus. :-) 过一天少一天.
   
  Sunlake     09/25/2010 14:16
昨天同高中好友通电话才知道2年前她做了大手术才挽回了生命,那时侯她还不到40。她长相漂亮高挑身材多才多艺又有领导才干。多年经历家庭不幸福,7年前独自带着两幼儿回国当HignTech工司的中上层管理。现在虽然还回去同一美国公司工作,但是身体状况显然不佳,前夫不管小孩,Sigh, 虽然经济状况很不错,但她一人心理负担太重了. Sigh again.

Health and happiness are the most important things in our lives!
   
  云天     09/25/2010 18:00
插一句.

类似的事情也发生在我朋友身上, 三十几时就得癌. 其实她们夫妻二人分开看, 都是很好的人.
....

祝你朋友再见阳光!
   
  Sunlake     09/25/2010 18:47
周末欣见云妹!谢谢你对我朋友的祝福!我们这次去会去看她和她孩子们。她得的是BrainCancer,手术好视力有芒点了,不能开车,还有就是千万别复发。。。她和我的要好的同班女同学大学毕业后不久在结婚前一天去世了,也是BC。Sigh...

She doesn't want to come back to US because she thinks she would have trouble for normal work-life here. I'm wondering if I can do something for her.
   
  云天     09/25/2010 20:49
本云从前在闲地就是老云了.

田长霖当时就是脑癌.人生无常....

病只能自己扛. 朋友能做的大概就只有聆听了.
我朋友当初生病时, 我对自己说, 她若有万一, 我一定尽力关照她幼小的孩子.
她现在身体还好. 对饮食相当在意了.


癌没人说得清. 一个医生朋友也患癌.
我们自己能注意的或许只有多运动与健康饮食, 还有保持平和的心态, 注意休息.


愿上帝保佑你朋友! 阳妹珍重.

歇去了, 哦, 接着忙.



Sunlake wrote: (9/25/2010 15:47)
周末欣见云妹!谢谢你对我朋友的祝福!我们这次去会去看她和她孩子们。她得的是BrainCancer,手术好视力有芒点了,不能开车,还有就是千万别复发。。。她和我的要好的同班女同学大学毕业后不久在结婚前一天去世了,也是BC。Sigh...
She doesn't want to come back to US because she thinks she would have trouble for normal work-life here. I'm wondering if I can do something for her.

   
  BBB     09/26/2010 10:10
在过去几年中,我真是很认真地将自己看成癌症病人。我身体没有什么不舒服,但就有个功能非常异常。我一直认为我有了某种癌症。因为我看到过有人查出癌症后生活变得十分不堪,所以我决定不去看医生,象正常人一样过剩下的日子。直到今年夏天,那个异常变得十分严重,我才去看医生。经过两次常规检查,和一次小手术,问题就痊愈了。癌症也完全排除了。这就是我前面提到的几次身体检查。我觉得自己很幸运。


云烟 wrote: (9/25/2010 20:49)
本云从前在闲地就是老云了.
田长霖当时就是脑癌.人生无常....
病只能自己扛. 朋友能做的大概就只有聆听了.
我朋友当初生病时, 我对自己说, 她若有万一, 我一定尽力关照她幼小的孩子.
她现在身体还好. 对饮食相当在意了.

癌没人说得清. 一个医生朋友也患癌.
我们自己能注意的或许只有多运动与健康饮食, 还有保持平和的心态, 注意休息.

愿上帝保佑你朋友! 阳妹珍重.
歇去了, 哦, 接着忙.




   
  阿蓉     09/30/2010 23:23
这种对待身体的态度很不好,应该叫二哥来教育教育你。



BBB wrote: (9/26/2010 10:10)
我一直认为我有了某种癌症。因为我看到过有人查出癌症后生活变得十分不堪,所以我决定不去看医生,象正常人一样过剩下的日子。直到今年夏天,那个异常变得十分严重,我才去看医生。经过两次常规检查,和一次小手术,问题就痊愈了。癌症也完全排除了。这就是我前面提到的几次身体检查。我觉得自己很幸运。



   
  BBB     10/01/2010 18:22
我去医院的时候,护士问我为什么不早去看,我给她这样讲了我样的想法之后,她说,nobody thinks that way.


阿蓉 wrote: (9/30/2010 23:23)
这种对待身体的态度很不好,应该叫二哥来教育教育你。




   
  云天     10/02/2010 01:43
是, 记得在"转徙的心情"一线你提到过, 当时以为你只是不爱看医生呢.

天佑好人. 看来你有"异常"的意志. :-)

为了不遭罪, 为了家庭孩子, 各位保重.



BBB wrote: (9/26/2010 7:10)
在过去几年中,我真是很认真地将自己看成癌症病人。我身体没有什么不舒服,但就有个功能非常异常。我一直认为我有了某种癌症。因为我看到过有人查出癌症后生活变得十分不堪,所以我决定不去看医生,象正常人一样过剩下的日子。直到今年夏天,那个异常变得十分严重,我才去看医生。经过两次常规检查,和一次小手术,问题就痊愈了。癌症也完全排除了。这就是我前面提到的几次身体检查。我觉得自己很幸运。



   
  Sunlake     10/04/2010 21:46
同意云MM和阿蓉,降E出棋"异常",幸好没事。以后可就不应再冒这个险了!

我这位朋友也是拖了6个月,直到在上班时昏倒,才发现已经转成恶性,才做手术的。幸好恢复的很不错。过几天就要去看她了,觉得我们都还是很幸运的。该感恩啊!

BBB wrote: (9/26/2010 22:10)
在过去几年中,我真是很认真地将自己看成癌症病人。我身体没有什么不舒服,但就有个功能非常异常。我一直认为我有了某种癌症。因为我看到过有人查出癌症后生活变得十分不堪,所以我决定不去看医生,象正常人一样过剩下的日子。直到今年夏天,那个异常变得十分严重,我才去看医生。经过两次常规检查,和一次小手术,问题就痊愈了。癌症也完全排除了。这就是我前面提到的几次身体检查。我觉得自己很幸运。



   
  Sunlake     10/04/2010 21:50
Yun MM, I think we are virtually in the same ages. Deviation is less than 1%.

Thanks for your comforting words!
   
  Sunlake     11/05/2010 01:31
Thank you Yun MM's well wishes! My friend is doing extremely well. I could not tell that she had a surgery. Her two kids are the most well mannered kids I've ever met, very sweet and very considerate and mature. What a relief! I'm very happy for her.
   
  Sunlake     11/05/2010 01:43
I have 3 best friends from middle/high school. All three of them were pretty girls then and are pretty ladies now! I was very happy to see all of them during our trip to China. Except the one I mentioned earlier, the other two went to Xiada as well. Between the year when we were 13 to early 20s, we spent lots of time together, talking, studying, playing etc. That was very happy time for us. Couldn't believe that 20 years have passed.
   
  云天     11/05/2010 21:53
Glad you had a great time visiting China.

All the old friends sure bring back your youthful years and beautiful memory. :-)





Sunlake wrote: (11/4/2010 22:43)
I have 3 best friends from middle/high school. All three of them were pretty girls then and are pretty ladies now! I was very happy to see all of them during our trip to China. Except the one I mentioned earlier, the other two went to Xiada as well. Between the year when we were 13 to early 20s, we spent lots of time together, talking, studying, playing etc. That was very happy time for us. Couldn't believe that 20 years have passed.

   
  云天     11/05/2010 21:55
Sunlake mm, thanks for the update.
With the advancing modern technology, cancer is certainly treatable if found at the onset.

Wish her and her lovely children well!!!



Sunlake wrote: (11/4/2010 22:31)
Thank you Yun MM's well wishes! My friend is doing extremely well. I could not tell that she had a surgery. Her two kids are the most well mannered kids I've ever met, very sweet and very considerate and mature. What a relief! I'm very happy for her.

   
  云天     11/05/2010 22:01
Sunlake mm, you like to play guessing game.

After turning 35, I don't feel like celebrating my birthday anymore, and I don't tell people my age either. A woman is as old as she looks. :-)

Let's all stay forever young. :-)





Sunlake wrote: (10/4/2010 18:50)
Yun MM, I think we are virtually in the same ages. Deviation is less than 1%.
Thanks for your comforting words!

   
  Sunlake     11/06/2010 14:50
Thanks very much, Yun MM!

Yes, I treasure my friendships with all my friends, since I'm a quiet person, barely making friends when I was young. There was only 1 girl that was my friend during my elementary years, I lost all contacts with her after going to middle school so over the 30 years I thought about her from time to time. In middle school, these 3 gals and the other girl who passed away before her wedding were my best friends. In college, I made 4 good friends and a couple ok friends. And those were all, before I came to US.

Btw, I like this song a lot, just asked my daughter download it to my ipod.


云烟 wrote: (11/5/2010 19:1)
Glad you had a great time visiting China.

All the old friends sure bring back your youthful years and beautiful memory. :-)


云烟 wrote: (11/5/2010 19:1)
Sunlake mm, you like to play guessing game.
After turning 35, I don't feel like celebrating my birthday anymore, and I don't tell people my age either. A woman is as old as she looks. :-)
Let's all stay forever young. :-)